Question 592

By: Robert Serreyn

Question? I am a christian and I am about to GET MARRIED to a gal that is NOT SAVED, but I love her and we have a child together. I am having doubts about it, what do you think I should do?


Well, you DEFINITELY placed yourself in a position that IS NOT in accordance with the Lord’s Will or his Word, NO WONDER you are having doubts, As a christian YOU KNOW what the bible says about a saved person marrying a unsaved person.

2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

BUT, instead of taking a BAD DECISION and making it worse, Here is my recommendation.

#1: You need to marry the Gal (I know, there are probably a thousand preachers that would say that I am wrong in my decision) BUT I look at it in this way, the sin has already been done so why take a BAD DECISION by making it worse (making them separate or not marry). ALSO there is no sense in leaving another child WITHOUT a legal father, there are plenty of those around.

#2: If you REALLY love her, THEN you need to TRY to lead this Gal to Christ based on 2 Corinthians 6:14.

In order to have the Lord’s FULL BLESSING upon your marriage then you and this Gal NEED to be unified in Christ.

#3: This is Very Important that YOU BOTH find a GOOD bible believing, teaching church, not only for yourselves but also for your child’s sake.

If you don’t raise your child in the Lord, Satan and his army of demons through the world’s influence will and you will have heartache that you will never have thought of.

Raising a child is tough enough WITHOUT having the the Lord’s influence and a good church involved.

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

In Conclusion:

PLEASE FOLLOW my recommendations and I wish the both of you all the best.

The MOST IMPORTANT thing to know IS Jesus Christ as savior, just simply believe that Jesus Christ went to the cross and DIED and shed his blood, was BURIED and three days later

The moment that you do YOU HAVE (at that second and forever) Everlasting Life which WILL NEVER be taken away no matter what.

-Christ DIED for you – Romans 5:8

-Christ PAID your sins in full – 2 Corinthians 5:21,1 Peter 2:24

-BELIEVE (Trust In Completely) in Christ ALONE as the complete payment of sin for salvation – John 3:16, Acts 16:31, Ephesians 2:8,9

“For the wages(payment) of sin is death (eternal torment in hell); but the GIFT(salvation) of God is eternal life THROUGH Jesus Christ our Lord”. Romans 6:23